When I was a little girl, I was hungry for change while witnessing my father treat my mother like a second-class citizen and abuse her countless times. Little did I know I had to go thought multi-suffering like cancer, depression and anxiety to create change, including an abusive relationship which almost killed me, and instigated the tragic loss of my second son. Going thought these traumas was painful, lonely, alienating, but also enlightening, exhilarating, and liberating. As I accepted these traumas, I came to the reality that I  created most of my  traumas by being a victim to my past. Once I came to this crucial awareness subsequently my life began to CHANGE…