"Living in each moment as it unfolds"
Margaret V Aberdeen
"Learning from challenges and transforming them into gifts"
Margaret V Aberdeen
"Loving yourself selfishly and sharing the overflow with others"
Margaret V Aberdeen
"Laughing with joy and happiness within sharing gifts with others"
Margaret V Aberdeen

Hi, I'm Margaret

Welcome to Embracing Change

When I was a little girl, I was hungry for change while witnessing my father treat my mother like a second-class citizen and abuse her countless times. Little did I know I had to go thought multi-suffering like cancer, depression and anxiety to create change, including an abusive relationship which almost killed me, and instigated the tragic loss of my second son. Going thought these traumas was painful, lonely, alienating, but also enlightening, exhilarating, and liberating. As I accepted these traumas, I came to the reality that I  created most of my  traumas by being a victim to my past. Once I came to this crucial awareness subsequently my life began to CHANGE…


A Domestic Violence, Cancer, Near Death Experience Survivor, and like the Phoenix bird has risen from it all as an Author/Poet – Award Speaker - Self-Discovery Coach – Trainer - Nature Lover

Book Margaret now for speaking engagements, trainings and coaching

The 4C's

Living, Loving, Learning and Laughing Using the 4C’s Process.

Discover How the 4C’s Work and how to put them into practice.


to create a better life


develop a self-relationship


take control of your life


rewrite your life story


Let me explain…

“Today is the day to resolve to awaken in every moment embracing change… to live, to learn, to love, to laugh…”

--Margaret V Aberdeen--

Work With Me

Margaret is available for workshops, coaching, and speaking events to learn how she embrace change and transformed her life from pain to gain.